People you should care for

Humans most often depend on each other at least in some case or event. Wise man or knowing man in Latin word, like most higher primates we are social by nature and we can adept to almost anything we encounter, we can adjust, apply, interact, exchange ideas as well our feelings.

But the way humans evolved has changed, we easily get familiar to almost anything even the new ones that we first encountered. Again as my number one guideline do not write to impress instead make use of it as a tool to help you develop yourself and know your boundaries so please don’t fall out. ‘Hey, I’m trying to be serious for at least here.

There are different types of person you will meet in your lifetime, some will just pop up then just go away, there are also some who will just remember you if they either need your help or just because it’s your special day. Well, there is only few people I know that I can count in my bare fingers who really do care whoever you are and what kind of a person you are to them. It’s true and I’m believing it that in this new world we should not easily give our trust every time we meet a new person.

Life is vague, life is just like burger thing, just this minute you are chewing a burger and in a moment later you’re a dead meat. Sounds familiar? actually I posted it as a quote in my Facebook feed a weak ago.

Choosing the people you should trust is quite tough, some may pretend just to be close to you for that you can be useful to them. You’ll never know when somebody is just using you to cover up their a**, trying to be friend with you when in fact they don’t really feel the atmosphere of friendship. To give you some nonetheless-people avoiding tips, here are two things I came up that could be useful for at least some case.

1. As a modern human living in mean world don’t give up your trust easily, especially to us guys. Never be fooled whatever sweet charming words you would hear from us. It’s just a word and it can not just easily prove to be true.
2. When someone approach you or anyone asking for your help just give them a try but never do it all again when he/she asked you the second time. You can easily see in a person if they are just trying to stick to you because they need your help. Observe them, usually they pleaded you so much then just disappears after they got want they need.

And to give back love to those person who are truly loyal whenever your day rained with problems or your day got brighten up. I think it is best to thank them a lot for being there all the time you needed them most and occasions they we’re there even if you don’t really need them. Those persons whom you call your friends, family, or special someone who always sticks at your side even if you encounter the darkest wall of life. Having them around can not be much more happier than having a mole at your back.

To give the love back there are just three things you should be all the time at least some of them.

1. Be useful
2. Be specific
3. Be nice

Being useful – I believe each of us is here to grow by learning how to share our unique gifts in a way that helps others. Even if you don’t believe that, one cold, hard look at the way people are wired tells you that when you can feed people’s core preservation self interests by being profoundly useful, they will love you. A Lot, probably. But you also get a charge out of it because doing it makes you feel better.

Being specific – As any actor will tell you, each of us can play anything. Only we can’t probably, and even if we can, presenting ourselves that way to the people looking to hire someone to fulfill a specific need is not useful. Actors do better when they present themselves as a type at least, initially. It helps casting directors and producers know where to put you now, or to file you in their mental filing cabinets for easy future retrieval.

Similarly, there is no such thing as a business that can solve every problem or a blog about everything staying within your areas of expertise when giving advice. Not to mention keep your head from exploding.

Being nice – nobody likes a meanie, it’s all too easy for things to get misinterpreted. Be ready careful about tone, and watch out for spreading mean gossip or even venting, unless you’re sure you’re in a secure space. Also, give what you have to offer with a kindly spirit. Consider finding a nice way of saying no.

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We should not just be useful, specific and nice to payback all the great things our friends and families gave us during rough times. Consider giving them big show of gratitude, in that way they will feel that they are also important for all the things they had contributed for your good. Give them a motivation to keep going on, for sure they feel will that they are very important and you really care for them.

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